KERRY ECKERT

Condolences & Memories (18 entries)

• Kerry will live on forever in your hearts Lolo, Ethan and Alix. He was so sad until he met you Lolo. He had lived such a harsh live. When he talked on the video about his life before you could feel his pain, the second he started talking about you three, his love flowed. Always feel his love, always know how much you meant to him, he will always walk beside you. We can't wait to hear about the adventure he planned out for you three, Kaitlyn wants to join you by the way! He loved you so much, we love you so much, know that you will never walk alone. XOXO always Rose, Bill and Family - Posted by: Rose and Bill () on: Jan 05, 2016

• To Kerry's much loved and beautiful family, Lolo Ethan and Alix, you owned Kerry's heart and always will. His love for you three kept him fighting for as long as he could. His words in the video were so true. We love these many videos that he left, though they were hard for him to make he did it because you three meant the world to him. Lolo, you fought with him and for him and like he said no one had ever done that before and he will always be eternally grateful for your love. Ethan and Alix your daddy was one in a million and he considered you two to be the best children in the world. His love for you made him fight hard and long. Ethan and Alix you look so much like him, he is in your smile and heart, stay strong. Check the stars out tonight I see him twinkling. All our love The McKays - Posted by: Carrie, Steve, Shane and Laurie () on: Jan 05, 2016

• Lolo, how beautiful and touching the evening was. He loved you, Ethan and Alicat so much. Never did a father love his children more then Kerry loved those two. Watching them grow and the way they were so closely involved in the night we know Kerry would be so very proud. They both are so much like Kerry not only in looks but in their heart and humour. He is watching from above so happy I am sure. The video was astounding, he loved you three so very much and that video showed it. We were blessed to have known Kerry and he was so blessed to have had you three as his family. It was a good night and a wonderful start to 2016. We love you! - Posted by: J and J () on: Jan 05, 2016

• Dearest Lolo, Ethan and Alixaendra, what a very moving and beautiful tribute. There was so much love in that room. We were blessed to have know Kerry and so thankful for the ability to see his love for you three in the videos. So moving, his words will be forever remembered. We are so sad that he endured the pain and sorrow that he did before he met you Lolo. It was painful to watch him talk about how much he suffered in his life before you. His joy though when he talked about you, Ethan and Alix was palpable his love for you three will always be with you. We were so pleased to be included in the evening. Stay strong and feel his love always - Posted by: Margaret, Joey and Family () on: Jan 05, 2016

• Kerry is never forgotten and always lives on. Lolo, Ethan and Alix - remember the laughter and the incredible memories. The tribute was beautiful, so good to "see" Kerry again. The planning that Kerry did to ensure that you have videos he made for all of life's celebrations shows how much he loves you and wants to be with you always. Sending all our love to you stay strong XOXO - Posted by: The McCain Family () on: Jan 05, 2016

• As this Christmas comes and goes, it is obvious Kerry's beautiful soul is not here with us. His boisterous laugh, his living smile, will be forever missed. Kerry, your 3 beautiful children live on in your memory. Payton, Ethan and Alix are so fortunate to have known a loving father like you. You always said, the truth will prevail... And in your honour it will, forever and ever... Despite the efforts of some. We love you and miss you forever, Kerry. - Posted by: L.J (Friend) on: Dec 30, 2015

• Kerry's much loved family, Lolo Ethan and Alix, Kerry lived for you, he loved everyone was a friend to everyone but you three possessed his heart. Kerry was truly amazing, wanted to make a difference in the world, wanted nothing more then for the evil in the world to end, I am so sorry that you are going through this. Kerry really did not want this to happen to you but as you know, as he told his friends, he never felt included or loved by them and now they are doing this. Kerry hoped that if they had loved him just a little they would change. Lolo, Ethan and Alix you have honoured Kerry and made him so proud. Chin up and soldier on we are all walking beside you with him. - Posted by: Mike () on: Sep 05, 2015

• Dearest Lolo, Ethan and Alix What a wonderful service, the air was filled with love for Kerry and your family. The special tribute that you performed with the ashes was something that truly brought tears to everyone in attendance. Ethan and Alix were amazing, they are making Kerry so proud. We could feel Kerry present and know that he will always walk beside you all, his beloved much loved family. Always there for you, Becki and Tom - Posted by: Becki and Tim (Friend) on: Sep 05, 2015

• I don't know who you are "Mike" and "Janine" but if you actually knew Kerry then you would know that this is not what Kerry wanted. This was a wonderful tribute to an amazing man that his family could read and know how powerful a love they were in his life. Whatever your intentions are they are ultimately hurting the very people he cared about the most. Shame on you for doing this to Kerry and his family. You would never be considered a "Friend" let alone a "Friend for life" by Kerry. He would not have allowed such hatred to be associated to him. Those who were closest to Kerry will always know the truth. Please stop this juvenile, hurtful game. - Posted by: his real friends () on: Sep 03, 2015

• Kerry, I remember all the stories you told me about your family... Your loving parents, Growing up playing by the river with your sister, moving to the country and welcoming Another sister and brother into your life, and the wonderful relationships you had with them. You had so many hockey stories, I would be in tears from laughing! The long days you put in cutting grass for CN and the ambulance business you started.... And your children, Payton, Ethan and Alix, how you loved them with your whole heart! You truly were one of the greatest men I've ever met... I miss you everyday, but am proud to have been your good friend. - Posted by: Mike (Friend for life) on: Sep 01, 2015

• Oh Kerry, we remember ... We will never forget. Your Family miss you so very much and always love you from the depths of their hearts, nobody can lie about that, no evil can take that away... Your 3 children know, in their souls, that they are always loved too, despite all of life's craziness that may come into their lives. Our sorrow reaches the end of the universe, and our love for you transcends time. - Posted by: Janine (Friend) on: Aug 30, 2015

• Lolo, Ethan and Alixaendra, A special service for such an amazing man. We miss him everyday. He was a man that made everyone feel better and cared so much about everyone. He would always shrug our accolades off and simply say that you Lolo Ethan and Alix were the real heroes in his life because you made it worth living and that he would fight to stay here with you. So many people there last night and all because they loved Kerry and you three. You were his much loved family and the joy , love and contentment that you brought to him after enduring so much pain and disappointment earlier in his life made him the man he was. He loved people, he always wanted to help but more then anything he wanted you three to be happy, healthy and content. I know he is still with you watching over you and smiling that smile that twinkles like the stars always. We love Kerry, we love you three and will always be there for you. XOXO The Jonge Family - Posted by: The Jonge Family (Friends) on: Aug 26, 2015

• Lolo, Ethan and Alix, words can not describe how moving the tribute was for us all. Kerry was an amazing man and we miss him. Every conversation that we ever had with Kerry started and ended talking about you three. Lolo, how you saved him from his painful life and filled it with your love and laughter. Ethan and Alix how you made him the happiest and proudest Daddy in the world. He always said that being a husband and father was his greatest role and greatest accomplishment. He bragged about how smart you were, how talented you were and how even though you inherited your brains and good looks from your mother you inherited his hair. It is important for you all to know that Kerry never left you, you three were his life and the special cards, videos and deliveries he left for you were so important to him. The video last night was so touching and special it brought tears to our eyes, it was so good to see and hear him again. The service was beautiful and your moving tribute made us understand all over again why he loved you to the moon and back times infinity. Wishing you love and peace Mary and Marty XOXO - Posted by: M and M (friends forever) on: Aug 26, 2015

• Dear Lolo Ethan and Alix, It was so wonderful to attend the service and to be part of this amazing remembrance and tribute to such an amazing man. Lolo you filled Kerry with such content and love, he was never happier then during the years that he spent with you. The power of your love helped him to overcome the bitterness he felt towards his life before you. For Kerry there was two very distinct parts to his life, before you and then after you. I hope it brings you much peace to know that his life with you was filled with everything he had felt he had missed out on during the first part of his life. He always said life was never worth living until you came into his life. Love and laughter filled his life when you entered and the joy that you brought to him completed him and made him want to be a better person. His goal was to make you laugh every minute of the day, your laughter was heaven to him. I don't think i have ever met two people more in love, happy or content then you two. This special service has i am sure made Kerry's smile even brighter, it will be reflected in the stars tonight I am sure. Ethan and Alix you were the most special and perfect children that ever walked the face of this earth. Your dad would talk all the time about your morning snuggle sessions and how special you two were. He was so proud of both of you and he knew you would both grow up to be amazing adults that would make the world a better place just like he did. He wanted so much to stay here on earth and continue to be the amazing father that he was. I firmly believe that he still is holding your hand Lolo and he is walking alongside you always. God bless you three, Kerry's angels on earth. We love him and miss him and will never forget him. - Posted by: jon () on: Aug 26, 2015

• Dearest Kerry, you were one of a kind, with a smile that lit up the room and a childlike glimmer in your eyes. You were always a gentleman and a joker. You had such love and compassion for all those around you, which is a testament to how your parents raised you and the love that lived within your family from childhood and throughout your life. You always spoke about your children, Payton, Ethan and Alix, and how blessed you were to have such beautiful offspring. You wanted the world for each of them and I hope you are looking down at all 3 of them with pride knowing they are doing their best, even if it has to be without Daddy. Everyone who met you, loved you Kerry, and we carry you in our hearts, always. - Posted by: Laura (Friend) on: Aug 13, 2015

• We remember Kerry and hope that the passing time has helped to comfort you all. Kerry always talked about how he had finally found the love, care and attention that he had searched for his whole life when he found you Lolo. When you entered his life he was fulfilled, happy, loved, and completed. When the two greatest kids in the world were born he was happier then he could ever imagine he could be. His years with his beloved family was what made moving to the next phase of life a little easier to bear. He fought hard to stay with you and many times his love for you three was what kept him fighting through the pain. You were his life and he was truly happy, you three did that for him and we hope you know that. We miss him dearly. xoxoxo Mary, Jim and the boys - Posted by: Jim, Mary and Family () on: Jun 20, 2015

• Dearest Lolo, Ethan and Alix Happy Heavenly Birthday to Kerry. Seems like just yesterday we were talking and he was telling us all how much he loved you three. That was not something new, he told us everyday. We hope your memories are always filled with his enormous love for he truly loved you through and through. Lolo he always said you saved him from a pitiful life he was unloved and invisible util he met you. He loved your laughter and set out to make you laugh every minute of every day. Ethan you were always his miniture version he knew you would go on to be a great man. Alix you were his precious daughter he wanted nothing more then to see you grow and become a vet. No father could ever be more proud then the way he was proud of you two. Kerry is looking down with such pride and love, we hope you feel it through every fibre of your being. Much love to you all XOXO - Posted by: Danny (friend) on: Jun 15, 2015

• Lolo, Alix and Ethan, Celebrate Kerry's heavenly birthday today and remember how much he loves you. Lolo you were the perfect partner, you saved Kerry from an unhappy, unloved life, something he told us all over and over again. You brought him so much love, attention, desire to chase his dreams and conquer his fears. Ethan and Alix you two made him so proud, he loved you both to the moon and back as he would say. Your daddy was so very proud he adored everything you do. Hoping days like today are getting easier and as you celebrate the day remember how much he loved you his beloved family - Posted by: lori and mike (friends for life) on: Jun 13, 2015